Maid of Honor problems resolved

Maya had the day off today, so I called and asked if I could come over after school so I could talk to her. She said she was sick and didn't feel like getting out of bed. I wanted to ask her about all the wedding stuff. She is making everything difficult. She doesn't want to wear a bridesmaid dress, and keeps complaining about colors and frankly I'm just sick of it. I'm sick of everyone bailing on me..etc. So she said that if I forced her to buy a dress she would as long as it wasn't super expensive. I don't know what she means by super expensive since most of the dresses are $150. So she's still going to be in the wedding.. which is good. So I can stop worrying that I have to find someone else to be maid of honor. So now I need to ask one more person. I haven't really decided on who yet.

Aaron has 4 groomsmen. I have 3 bridesmaids so far. I have a couple of people I want to ask. I was thinking well who cares if I'm lopsided, I'll just ask them all and have a bigger side than Aaron... but then again, I've already padded Aaron's side with my brother and my friend Andy. I could pad it with one more - my sisters husband. This would 1. Get my sister off my back about including Mitch and 2. irritate my mom to high heaven. So the party would be up to 5 total for Aaron's side.

I could ask Christian, but I know she wouldn't be able to afford the dress. I kind of want to ask Kerry since she's been really involved with everything - esp dress shopping with me - but her best friend Chrissie is also my friend and I think she might feel left out ..etc. I was thinking of maybe asking Kerry to do a reading or having them be the candle lighters for the unity candle. I know its traditionally the mothers, but Aaron doesn't have one and my mom isn't coming, so... thats out.

On Saturday, I'm going dress shopping again to take a better picture of the last dress.

I've found some people to go with me... so Yay. I just needed to expand the people I asked. Rachel moved to San Leandro, so she's not too too far from the shop, we'd pick her up on the way and Manjit lives in Sunnyvale now (near SJ) and Kerry is driving down from Sacramento to go. So yay. Lots of people to go. That makes me happy. So happy.