Only nice in person

As everyone knows.. I'm not inviting my mom to my wedding.

There are a variety of reasons... One is that we've never really gotten along anyway. Then she decides to start pissing me off. First by not even seeming interested in my wedding. She would get "wedding-ed" out frequently and I could only talk to her about the wedding for an hour a week - and that included any time to go look at venues. Ugh.
Second by cutting me off financially when she knows I don't have a job or any money. Putting a strain on me and Aaron after she knew we didn't have any more money after putting down several deposits.
Then she decided that she didn't want to come to the wedding if all 50 of her friends couldn't come. Thus eating up all of her money she was giving us towards the wedding. She was being unreasonable. I told her she could invite 10-15 people max and that if anyone else came, she could pay extra for them. Especially all the grown adult children of her friends and their dates she was inviting. I can understand her friends, but their 35 year old children and their girlfriends? um. no.
So she said she wasn't going to come unless I changed my mind.

So I stopped talking to her and uninvited her to my wedding.

Then she decided to play "oh poor me" with my family and get half of them including my grandma and brother to say they wouldnt come if she didn't come... oh well. whatever. don't come.

Anyway. I've been sick all week. My grandma called me today to see how I was doing, and I told her I was feeling better. I hadn't been feeling well these past few days. My mom picks up the phone because she doesn't realize someone is on it. My grandma said that I was feeling better. My mom just grunted and hung up.

If she really cared and wanted to make up with me, she would have made some comment like, I'm glad to hear that or something. Not a grunt.

She only really seems like she cares in public and doesn't make an effort to mend bridges when she is in private... ugh.