A bridesmaid has been fired or quit? I don't know

Soo....

flaky bridesmaid continued..

so Tasha comes over to my house to get her laundry that she left over here for 3 days. She had to wait around an hour for the laundry to finish because I didn't put it in the dryer like she'd asked me to... like I'm her maid or something. So, I ask her if shes going tomorrow because I was a little annoyed that she let me know last minute, I can't cancel until tomorrow and there isn't any way I can get a replacement so last minute - unless I want to take Aaron with me. So she said she'll go. So I was just joking as she left and said if she didn't go, I would demote her to flower girl. So she said she'd rather be flower girl than get up so early.

So I thought she was going to go. I was a little annoyed about having to convince her to go, considering going was her idea in the first place.

Fast forward, 20 minutes, and she sends me some nasty text message about how I need to be more understanding when she has to work and how she doesn't like that I'm forcing her to go when she's super tired and wants to sleep in tomorrow.

So I text her back and tell her that if she didn't want to go, she should have let me know a few weeks ago when I made the appointment, and that if she thought it was early, she should have told me 2 days ago when I reminded her about the appointment.. instead of tonight. I know she's out at some party right now because she was talking to her boyfriend about it. So the reason she wants to sleep in is because she won't be going to bed until really late ( maybe not until morning) because she'll be out partying.

I also said that I'm really just annoyed about how one sided things have become.. she wants me to drop everything and come get her 2 hours away when she leaves her husband. She wants to come over and use my computer. She wants me to take her places. She wants Aaron to come over and fix her car... but when it comes to doing one little thing for me.. she blows me off so she can go party all night.

Well f that. I hadn't even made her up a Save the Date because well frankly I wasn't sure that I was even going to end up inviting her the way things have been going with her. I also sent the other girls little cards asking them to be bridesmaids a few days ago, and I didn't send one to her because I didn't want to officially ask her because she was being all flaky. I've never actually said anything about her being a bridesmaid, she asked if she could be one, and I said i didn't know, we'd have to see on how many people Aaron has.

So now I'm glad I didn't send her anything confirming anything..

Maybe she'll decide to show up tomorrow.. I doubt she will.

I'm not going to try to contact her again. Really I hadn't even heard from her in a few weeks before last weekend when she randomly called and asked if I wanted to go to dinner. Before that she was supposed to go somewhere with me, and didn't show. So I hadn't called. I'd been getting pretty annoyed for the last few months about how everything is Me me me.. and she doesn't even seem to be appreciative that I do so much for her.

So I guess I'm just going to fire her, but I guess if I never really asked, is it called firing? I dont know. Whatever it is.. I'm just going to ask someone else.