Maid of honor...

So I officially do not have a maid of honor as of today.

Maya quit.

I sent her an email a few days ago, asking her if she still wanted to be in the wedding because if she didn't have the time, she could either 1. be a bridesmaid or 2. just come as a guest. I basically laid my feeling out saying that her complaining about the dresses and everything was starting to make me feel bad. I didnt think I was being demanding by asking her to come once in awhile to do stuff. That I understood she was busy and thats why I've been trying to send her invites and notices waaay in advance. I gave her the option of leaving early like my friend Rachel is doing. Plus I basically told her I didnt want to hear her complain about any of my decisions anymore because it was hurting my feelings. I never complain about any of her choices and I think she needs to give me the same respect.

So she responded to my email by calling me selfish and spoiled. Saying that she has "real things" to worry about and that she was just being honest about my choices and none of it would be what "she would do". That I need to stop being so demanding of my bridesmaids or I will "have no friends left" and she doesn't want to come as a bridesmaid and she doesn't know if she even wants to be a guest either.

So now I dont know what to do.