Drama - drama - drama!

I talked to Rachel yesterday and she was basically telling me that no one really liked my other Bridesmaid, Priscilla that went to the bachelorette party. So now I'm worried that they are all going to be mean to her at the wedding. I really don't understand it. Plus Rachel kind of made it sound like since 3 of them have been doing most of the "work" that no one else matters or something. I don't know.

I appreciate the "work" they have been doing, but I don't think on the day of, any of that matters because when the others are there they should all get along. I think they are mad because one of my BMs can't really do a lot of stuff because she lives with a strict family. but apparently they resent the fact that she can't come to the work parties but she can come to the drinking party. *sigh*

Anyways, I guess they are all mad at me because they think I'm siding with Priscilla and not them. So that means I don't appreciate them or something. So thats why they basically ditched me at the bachelorette party. Which didn't go all that well. It kind of ended with me calling Aaron crying to come get me (which he can't because he has a cast on his leg) and finally just getting my friend Marissa to take me home.




They also think that I shoud just let the other BM Tasha bring her boyfriend because she's been helping and spent lots of money or something. Even if it is a week before the wedding, we should just do it to keep peace and keep her friendship or something. Well I'm sorry but we've spent lots of money too and if she wants to be a b*tch about everything, and throw a tantrum, I'm not going to give in. I don't want her there if she is going to be like that.

I gave her the option of paying for him to go. Aaron already said he's not going to add anyone else at this point. I even asked him and he said no, she can live one day without him or she can pay for him. So I told her that if she wanted to pay for him, we would add him. So she goes on and on about how much she's already spent and she doesn't want to pay for him.

How dare I invite some people from work when she's known me longest and she should get dibs on any space at the wedding to bring a date. Then she says that her invite said "and guest" which I know isn't true because I didn't give anyone an "and guest". I either knew the name of the date, or they didn't get a date.

Then she said I'm stupid because no one ever invites people without dates.. and how dare i think that anyone would ever want to come alone.. even if she does know other people..etc.

So then I get some text from Tasha saying that even Rachel thinks I'm being ridiculous and then continues to go on and on about how no one wants to go to the wedding on Saturday. Like my mom or my brother. So that should tell me something about myself and blah blah blah.

I'm sorry but I'm done with her. If she thinks that little of me, I don't want her to come. So I called Ray and he said that they all need to get over themselves and be happy and supportive or they just need to not come. He said he's excited for me and he will tell anyone off who tries to ruin my day.

I'm considering bumping Rachel and Kerry off the head table and just having Ray and Andy sit up there with me since they seem to be most excited and supportive this week. Everyone else seems to want to cause drama. :-/

Do you think its too late to just remove the entire bridal party and just have my sister and cousin be in it?
Maybe we can have ray and andy stand on my side too!!