I give up

My mom looked at the two pictures of the wedding venue I like and then preceeded to nitpick it. *rolls eyes*
Then she said she didn't want to pay for the venue, she'd rather pay for the invitations and the dress and etc. Stuff that really wont amount to much. So I suggested her paying for the food. Thats the other big expense. I dont really want her paying for all the little stuff because I want to be able to pick what I want without her criticizing it or me in the process.
The she preceeded to go on and on about how lovely pink dresses would look on the bridesmaids. or brown. or red. or at least at the very least if I have to have blue, navy. Anything but light blue. Light blue is ugly and she personally would not want to wear bright blue. She commented that she was glad I would not be forcing her to wear blue to my wedding.
What is wrong with BLUE?!!?
Augh... I guess you can't please everyone.
and you know what I am sick of trying.